Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Melbourne and her Hare Krishnas

I stepped off the train on my first Saturday in Melbourne and felt the excitement of being in this city pulse through me. The energy went directly to my feet as they took me off through the delights of a brand new city. There was a purpose to my day: as I had not expected to step out of the tropics this year, I was very much on a mission to find some warm clothes and boots. The sights and sounds of this city built on my exhilaration, I loved the street theatre taking place around me - the gorgeous music coming from singers, guitarists and other interesting instrumentalists. They called us in, their audiences forming a circle around them before losing interest and moving onto the next bit of entertainment. I watched as a man changed position on his street toilet, or a magician pulled a coin from a little girl’s outstretched hands.


After revelling in my newly purchases boots, I went looking for some lunch. A sign advertising ‘Gopals: vegetarian food for the soul’ caught my eye. I wondered up the stairs to find a gorgeous buffet of food inviting me in. I looked at the price of the feast platter, a bargain by Melbourne’s standards. Five minutes later I was sitting at the window with my feast in front of me, watching the streets outside and the autumn leaves swaying in the shivering breeze. I was delighted to have stumbled upon this gem. I found out that it was a Hare Krishna enterprise, and I did recall the Hare Krishnas as being quite generous folk.



I was right. A few days later I was hunting for the perfect hot chocolate. Another sign caught my eye – the cheapest vegetarian food in town. Hmm… there are three words I love about that sentence. Once again I found myself walking up some stairs and into a toasty chamber within. There was a loud man serving large helpings of food at the end of the room. It looked delicious. Forgetting my hot chocolate search, I paid my money and sat before my meal: curry, rice, pommadoms, and an incredibly sweet looking desert. I chatted away to the Canadian guy next to me, he’s been to both South Africa and Bali and I’d been to Canada. After filling up the all the food I could manage I went to have a look at the vegan dessert option. It had already been cleared away. A girl in a sari saw me poke my nose around the serving station, and she generously offered me some more. Soon I was clutching a take-away container stuffed fill with a vegan version of the dessert (Score!).

That next weekend I experienced the Hare Krishna community. I went to the Saturday night event and joined in with the chanting. After the mini-kirtan there was a speaker whose talk I only caught bits and pieces of, I found my tired mind dreaming of other things as the speaker spoke his truths. I’d like to say that I caught the important bits, but this didn’t help me when he kindly directed a question at me. I sat frozen, having been somewhere completely different, “sorry… I zoned out.” Oops.

After experiencing the delicious dinner at the end of the Kirtan on Saturday night, I convinced Bridgette to join me in visiting the Hare Krishna Ashram the next evening. She agreed heartily, the idea of “Free Feast” as appealing to her as it was for me. We found our way there and arrived during the meditation. A set of wooden prayer beads were given to us as we were invited to join in, the process was explained to us newbies - say the mantra written on the wall and when its done, move onto the next bead. There were 108 beads. By the time we finished the meditation I was four beads ahead of where I was supposed to be, and Bridgette was four behind. Our focus would need to be worked on. After our introduction into Hare Krishna meditation, we joined the queue for the feast, and what a feast it was! Our plates were piled high with rice and curry and then our dessert was plonked onto our plate along with the rest of our food. Bridge and I laughed as the sides of our pudding mingled with the sides of our curry. Nevertheless it was delicious and we both thoroughly enjoyed the experience of sitting cross-legged on the floor with everyone else.


So after the delights of Hare Krishna, would I join their movement? No. But any sort of organised religion doesn’t really appeal to me. I’d rather leave myself open to experience bits and pieces of what inspires the belief and faith of others. Although, I'm certainly appreciative of the way the Hare Krishnas fed me so beautifully during my Melbourne experience! I found each person I met within this society kind, open and loving, with seemingly no intention of converting me - their only concern being to be feed me silly.

Thank you Hare Krishna!




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Friday, June 13, 2014

Pay as You Feel for Deliciousness

I am sitting in the pay-as-you-feel Lentil as Anything restaurant in the Abbortsford Convent in Melbourne. This means that you eat delicious food and then literally pay what you feel the meal is worth or what you have in your pocket at the time. It’s a Saturday afternoon and I have brought myself here to be in the buzz, drink some chai, eat some food and write some blog. It’s a beautiful chilly Melbourne day but we’re all snug and warm in here. The chatter of well-fed people fill my ears, along with the clinking of cutlery and crockery while the business of being a restaurant takes place around us. Musicians take turns at enchanting us with their piano expertise and closing my eyes I could be at any bustling, ‘normal’ restaurant. 

People are lining up along the metal bayonets overflowing with abundant vegetarian food, each person dishing up for themselves. Restaurant volunteers are as busy as anyone in the restaurant industry, and yet they’re not being paid for this – they’re giving up their Saturday afternoon to serve us. I asked one of the waitresses why she volunteers here. She’s a traveller and her only form of income, besides the food she eats here, is busking on Melbourne’s streets. She says she works here nearly every day and enjoys being part of a community with the values which this restaurant celebrates.


Once you have had your fill of delicious food and perhaps ordered a delicious hot drink, you go to the wooden treasure chest up against the wall and slip in however much money you feel you can pay. I love this concept; I love the giving-ness of it. Some would be sceptical of this kind of model working in the long term, but this place is packed every single day, there are four branches in Melbourne and a brand new one recently opened up in Sydney - the next on my list to visit!


Lentil as Anything runs on a model of trust, generosity, kindness and inclusion…without drawing attention to someone’s ability to pay. Lentil started so that people with no money can learn, work, eat, socialise and have fun in our restaurant without compromising their integrity or dignity…At Lentil, we believe in the power of humanity to create stupendous change and that everyone deserves a place at the table. Our food is not free, but you are…                                          Lentils as Anything - Menu

Imagine if there was more space for these kinds of spaces in the world? Imagine if everyone could come and find a place to be safe and cosy and call home, even if just for a little while.



Postscript: After finishing the first draft of this blog post, a guy came and sat opposite me. I felt a strange vibe from him and asked the girls sitting next to me if they would watch my computer while I went to the bathroom. I came back and this guy started to engage me in conversation. It was difficult to understand him, his accent was thick and I also felt as one feels when they’re with someone who is not quite…normal. He started speaking about aliens and anti-viruses and how he doesn't use a home phone. I cut him off, “I'm just busy working here…” I smiled at him in that sickly sweet way you do when you're trying to be nice but not nice at the same time - a part of me thought I should listen to him, who knows what he might have to say. The other obstinate part of me wanted to write my blog in peace, about the inclusion of everyone at this restaurant. He was unimpressed by my desire to ‘work’ and told me so, and I got the feeling that he was telling me that here he was trying to give me something by way of his conversation and I was rebuffing him. Soon he left, I smiled up at him, trying to redeem myself and he smiled sadly before he turned to walk away. I was filled with guilt. Here I was celebrating how this restaurant is so inclusive, and yet not even for ten minutes could I include this man in my life. Another lesson to learn perhaps, hopefully I’ll remember it the next time I am faced with a chatty stranger whom I feel has nothing to say.